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better off love ranting
Saturday, March 19, 2011, 3/19/2011 12:50:00 am ♥

i guess no one really blogs anymore... but i just felt like blogging my feelings on certain matter called love.. yes i know.. here we go again..

it's just that recently i've seen breakups happening around me.. and been talking about it awefully too much... it's got me thinking wat the causes of breakups really are... friends..

one can't get over an ex...

one cant resolve matters with ex and drifting..

one just broke up over a 'flirt'..

one is in a relationship, hesitant but still hoping..

i think it really comes down to effort, faith, belief and acceptance.. if u don't hav the faith that both of you will still be together after 50 yrs.. better off... if u dun believe they wont lie, cheat, leave, etc .. better off.. if you don't accept them for who they are.. better off...if you dont make the effort to make it work... u're better off... without them..

i guess girls like to blame the guy for all their problems.. but really.. we've got so many emotions going on that.. sometimes it makes it hard to believe ourselves sometimes.. it's funny coz adam actualli talked to me over dinner yesterday n i found out tt he thinks that majority of relationships.. the girl breaks up wid the guy... i told him.. nooo the guyyyy breaks up wid the girl! coz they cheat! but really.. girls are so emotional maybe little things become big things and boom.. tts it? makes u wonder why girls and guys often do not get each other...

nowadays.. when someone says "i love you" .. do they really mean it? ask yourself that... sometimes i think ppl say it just for the sake of saying it.. but realli.. do u mean it? how do you kno if someone realli loves u?

love is overrated. you could love anyone if you really wanted to.. and how do you know if you do love him/her?
when nothing in the world can break yous apart emotionally.. that is true love :) - to me

i guess lookin at my own relationship.. it does look kinda pathetic that i'm waiting for something that might not evn turn out like a happy ending.. i didnt like feeling pathetic.. but i realised.. tt was jus realli my outer ego gettin to me.. why should i feel that way? does it do ne good? no.. does it matter what others think? no. so to get thru that all i can do really is simply trust him... i'd like to see a goal in general.. n i can but at the same time i can't see it.. our future together - im stil working on it.. but i do have hope that it will get there one day.. and that piece of hope and acceptance is the key in all that's keeping us together...


some words of advice: make sure you know enough about the person before you fall 'in love'.. and if you've found someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.. you just have to believe it'll work despite all the obstacles you're facing.. no one's perfect.. everyone has their own problems and issues.. listen to them.. work things out..

ok so maybe this is a bad example but.. one day if you hav your own child.. majority of parents would love them unconditionally.. how is it possible to love someone u don't know unconditionally? how do u kno that your child won't become someone who would just throw you in a retirement home? effort, belief, faith, acceptance. - much like our relationships.. of course.. for relationships to work.. "it takes two hands to clap" which reminds me i came across a quote the other day :

"when we grow older.. we realise we have two hands.. one to help yourself.. and one to help others.. " - and i guess you can help yourself by helping others too :)

so i think that's enough from me tonite..
sympathy and prayers to those affected by the tsunami and earthquakes up north.

-with love, jasmine